Friday, July 18, 2008

Should your future wife be a virgin??


Well guys if you find out that your girlfriend is not a virgin, what will you do?? Will you marry her?? Past is past but the thing is if she can't stay without going to the one who she gave her virginity.. I mean her sexual partner..

For some reason she can't marry her sexual partner and she is asking you to marry her, while in the mean time she is going to fulfill her sexual desires from her sexual partner as well.. So guys what will you do if something like this happens to you??? Will you marry the girl by forgiving her while she doesn't think what she has done was a sin and doesn't want to stop it??? Girls what do you think to do in this situation???

She couldn't make him fall into her trap and make him marry her the instant she wanted... She played a little game by talking about the marriage and broke up with him to carry on fulfilling her desires with her ex-boyfriend (sexual partner).. So does that guy still has to wait for her to come back to him again??? What's the best thing to do in a situation like this???
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22 comments:

Spark of Silence said...

If she can't marry her 'sexual partner' but wants to marry some other dude, whats the point in marrying if she wants to have sex with the 'sexual partner' of hers?

Cosmic Zombie said...

Why even marry? Just continue to have sex with both, or even a threesome. Why bring a wet blanket like marriage into such a cool situation.

Uniqu3 Graph!X said...

its ok if she realised her fault and wanted to stop it and make her future better... If she really want to change herself she don't even have to think about it. But that's not what she wanted.. but anyway, she took her decision and went once by hurting someone who loves her. So wats the use of running behind her for the second time.. let her be n let her live her LIFE... It's better for him to plan a better life without her and thank Allah that she didn't come into his life...

thewildhunter said...

Thnx spark of silence, cosmic Zombie and Uniqu3 graph!x.. :D

Iya said...

the gal not being a virgin aint a big deal, man. but if she wants to sleep around, i say fuck it. there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Fazeel said...

Nobody can undo their past mistakes even wishing to do so is in vain. But we should try not to make
the same mistake.
There is a saying "All human make mistakes, but only wise out of them learn from their mistakes."
So let us be the people who learn from our past mistakes and build our future by looking those mistakes as a guide. I remember One of my friend told me that "For every rock in the sea, there is a fish". :D So That's What I have to say finally.. Be happy and Enjoy. Life is Short.

thewildhunter said...

thnx iya and fazeel :D

ŜėńśĮBı£™ ĝÚỳ© said...

Well she should absoloutely get what she deserves. You dudes would know that if someone do ziney 50 ethifaharun jrhun and if married and done with someone elso thrn Rajam kulhun. Mihaaru giyaa mathuge alaamaaithah mi fennanee. Giyaamathuge alaamaatheh eiy Ziney aamuvun. Oh allah! please make me someone without those kinds of feelings. Aameen

d3sparat3dr33m said...

offcause

d3sparat3dr33m said...

I want a virgin... Dont you want a virgin.....? there are circumstances where we all can ignore it, but if it's feasible and worth to do it.. the gl like her I dont think its worth.

faxeel: m nt against ur thought, bt life is short does not mean we can go enjoy beyond its allowed, what she has done is... cant acceptable.

thewildhunter said...

thnx ŜėńśĮBı£™ ĝÚỳ© & d3sparat3dr33m..

Anonymous said...

i think u are a stupid.

thewildhunter said...

Why am i stupid???

Its me said...

hey man ur stupid because ur tryin for someone's property... ey meehaku thalhaalaafa huri meehaku ehen meeheh ge mahchah hih anbura lumakee v udhagoo kameh... never forget this in ur life..... ur frnd is gonna to junp on the same situation..

thewildhunter said...

Thnx its me :D

Anonymous said...

Virgins? Ha ha, I didn't know they existed these days beyond the age of 14, 12 in some countries.

If you have a problem such as the one you explain, you might best avoid it and move on as others here have advised. This is because if it's going to be a problem in your head it will only make things worse later on if the two of you decide to stay together.

An innocent little virgin girl would be nice, but, I don't know about you, I live in a society where those things are non existent and as a result in the society I live in people going "astray" to fulfill their sexual desires is very probable. This is why we talk with our partners about the deepest desires they may have, basically the idea is you're like any other man and hence can fulfill your partners sexual desires like any other man. If that is already in place, this open communication between you and your significant other and someone still goes astray, then yes, there is something wrong with that person and if you're not married to this person, best let him/her go and move on.

Hope this is helpful, a slightly different perspective. Good luck.

Anonymous said...

i think u are pretending to be a gud guy. do u think its a good manner? is it decent way? and do u think revenge can make u happy? the answer is no. loosers will do this kind of things. try to be a decent man. we all are human beings, no one is perfect. good luck

thewildhunter said...

yeah anonymous... wat u're telling is also true... as u said, its frm a totally different perspective, but still ended up with the advise others gave me... thanx, i really appreciate ur comment...

thewildhunter said...

Anonymous “ i think u are pretending to be a gud guy. do u think its a good manner? is it decent way? and do u think revenge can make u happy? the answer is no. loosers will do this kind of things. try to be a decent man. we all are human beings, no one is perfect. good luck” (Tuesday, July 29, 2008 9:38:00 AM)

Maybe u r right…. Maybe not…. But did I mention any where in this article it happened to you.. or your relative or someone else related to u… No.. I didn’t.. in a coincidence it might be related to you.. or your related one.. That’s not my problem.. I didn’t write your name or your relative’s name.. Even I didn’t mention that it happened to me.. But now I have to tell all the things.. Coz you are trying to do that…


Ok .. It happened to me, so I know the real name of the girl I mentioned in the blog.. I have her contact numbers, her mum’s number, her home number, her own sister number, her cousin sisters numbers, her mail address, her two sis mail addresses, 4 of her cousin mail address, some of her friends email address and contact numbers, her own address, her college address.. some of her friends address, her cousins address,. Did I mention anything in my blog??? Are you telling me to write all the details of these things.. Tell me??? Still I have some pictures of her, u want me to post some pics of her??? Then u’ll know who I was talking abt in the blog. If its you or your related one, you can tell me to remove all the things.. I am sure I will remove…

Thanks for visiting my blog. You like to comment my article.. But u’re so scared to write ur name.. Come on, have some guts… I guess u have my mail add, if you don’t want to write your name in my blog, u’re free to mail me.. but you can’t.. I am 100% sure abt that.

Yeah I am a good guy.. that’s y even though that girl couldn’t have sex with me, she wanted me..She wanted to marry me and her family liked me more than her sex partner.. I know still she wants me.. .. she wants me to marry her… But I will never go back to that lady’s life… Who will go and jump on a burning fire while knowing that its fire nd not fresh water… right???

Yeah it’s a good manner… coz I am sharing my life with my blog readers and my friends.. I need some advice from them to get out of her thoughts… Cant I??? I need to know from them that wat happened to me, just happened for good. Like the way I posted n artcle the previous time she broke up with me. Even dat time I wrote a big post about my life with her. In Islam also it says to discuss about things. So I discussed about my life. In a more DECENT way, it’s called getting a counseling…


Yeah, It’s a decent way.. I am a decent guy.. so why cant I do decent things ??


Huh… I don’t want to take revenge from that lady.. coz she is nt worth to take revenge even.. Now she doesn’t have any value in front of me… I just shared my life with my blog readers and friends… If I want to take revenge I can do so many things.. But I didn’t and I will not.. Excuse me! Are you asking me to take revenge..??? No WAY.. And for ur information I would like to say that I am really happy now insha Allah… You don’t have to think about my happiness… And the answer is I don’t need to take revenge from her now…. Coz I finally took my decision… it won’t change for her this time Insha Allah…


Who is the looser...??? Me or that lady…?? I think the looser is that lady.. coz she wanted to trap me but she couldn’t do that.. And I got saved from her, so I am the winner and she is the looser… And she is still scared that I will expose her.. So who is the looser.. ??? Why is she so scared if she is the winner…???


One more time… I don’t have to try to be decent coz I am always decent…


I know no one is perfect…That’s y even I mentioned in that mail that “anyone can make mistakes. Nobody is perfect.” I sent that mail after I tried to talk her and I didn’t have any other choice to let my thoughts speak to her.. I guess even u read it if u r the lady or a relative of the lady, I mentioned in my blog… So read it again…

Good luck for what??? I think I have to say gud luck to you.. coz I tried to shut my mouth and didn’t want to tell anything about her in my blog… (i mean I didn’t mention ur/her name in it. Neither a name of a relative.) but u’re just pouring oil into a burning fire to make the fire big right? U want to let everyone know that it happened to me and the name of the lady?

Anyway, I can post this comment as a new post… this is getting way too long for a reply of ur comment.. so any opinions abt this? It wd be a grt help 4 u too to expose her right?

YEAH, it happened to ME.. and the lady’s name is not worth even telling… so better not talk abt her. If you have some guts to write your name, it would be a gr8 help for me to help you on this.. Good luck on your work…. You have already done ¼ of this… Rest is coming soon… Its only on your hand.. Don’t give up…

Uniqu3 Graph!X said...

Anonymous said...
"i think u are a stupid.
(Saturday, July 26, 2008 8:51:00 PM)

Yeah, he was stupid... he was stupid to go back to her while everyone kept telling him not to. While he knew wat she did to him and while he came to know about her past and wat she did which she never told him b4 he heard it frm sombody else. he was stupid that while he knew that she was with her ex-bf in there but still accepted her back...

BUT NOW, he's NOT STUPID... he won't go back to her again... he wont fall for her even IF she does any good tricks...

I think dat u r little stupid to enter his property and commenting on it as an anonymous while he still can see who comments in his blog.. as others said, think abt the situation and have a brain while commenting... comment on the article, dont judge the person who wrote the article... article is abt getting ur opinion on situations like that...

S Mohamed said...

Dear Afsal.. plz have a loot at my blog, i guess i have answerd your question...

http://lostlife-darklife.blogspot.com/

Take care n Good luck man..

thewildhunter said...

thnx Uniqu3 Graph!X & s mohamed :)